d4 loves to share.
Not that he was a jerk to loves to tell tales but rather he love to share because "knowing is half the battle".
Lotsa things can be avoided. It's just that sometimes people who sees it doesn't know what it is coming.
Anyway today's is about MARRIAGE.
Now pray tell, why is d4, one whose heart is paralysis all the way, knows about MARRIAGE?
d4 got zero street cred on that, except that his parents are married.
Anyway this tale about his cousin from the maternal side. Tee met this Fatso CK around sometimes back and they were like chummy like even before I ORD. Now here's d4's take on the guy on 1st Impression.
1)He is plump and big sized
2)Rosy pink. Hah!
3)He like kind of shy. Or he rather not want to talk
Of course d4 is the type who is bothered by people who don't talk to him (people generally wished he didn't exist or took that he was like some k-horror feature). Just that d4 heard from Aunt Peg that this guy was taken out for dinner but he hardly paid a single cent to Aunt Irene who is the mother of Tee. Of course, at this point also d4 had to reveal that d4 never treated Aunt Irene meals. He did however buy some snacks and tidbits for her when he pop by her saloon. When d4 is old enough (roughly 13?) , he had the backbone to eat by the dishes (meaning TAKE SAMPLE ONLY) ordered rather than till full. d4 is aware that Aunt Irene is a nice woman who isn't stingy about her wealth but she had a rather bad mouth so d4 rather not let her had chances on d4 when things doesn't work out in the future.
Anyway after d4 ORD and on June '05, d4 actually treated d4's mum Aunt Irene, Peg and Uncle Danny and some of d4's cousins dinner because of mum's birthday. Since it's d4 treating, d4 ought to eat to my full right?NO!!!Because of Fatso CK.!!!He just eats and maybe he was aware that d4 is TREATING!WTF!!!d4 is kind of more piss because after dinner, d4 was told this GARBAGE BIN is free loading at Aunt Irene's place and Aunt Irene wasn't too happy that he didn't even contribute a single cent!!!!d4 got pissed!!!Because d4 was out of job and yet d4 still treat people dinner!!!NBCB!NbcB!!!d4 ATE FUCKIN MAGEE MEE AFTER d4 TREAT PPL DINNER!!!!WAH LAU!!!NBCB NBCB CBCBCBCBCBCB!!!!
Ok that's the BAD BLOOD between us.
Prior to that, Aunt Irene got a china girl stayover. It's CNY so of course so she sorta join. I dunno if it was bcos she was bored so the NBCB CK had to like...play with her? So I was like in my mind....that he will stray and he doesn't care.
d4 wasn't sure but d4 is a guy and definately not given a Saint status yet. d4 knows what the pork is being cooked and d4 knows.
Anyway the main reason was that CK cheated on his wife (but no ceremony yet). He was spotted but went unchallenged on the spot. The other reasons in that the Porker works in the Uncle's company. He dug out all the finance record and READ HARD UPON IT. People did all kind of stunt to cheat on the TAX MAN, so I am not surprise that my Uncle did but that doesn't matter that PORKER HaD TO SUBCONSCIOUSLY EXTORT $. FUCK HIM. He is part of the family actually so WHy so HARD UP???They quarrelled about HER $, HER PARENT's $. HOW THEY SPENT EVEN. Hey Porker!WTF?!This is PEOPLE's BUsiness???HAD you EVEN consider if YOU ARE FUCKING FREELOADER?
People say things about CK yet d4 hardly say it out loud. d4 regreted. d4 ought to had to talk to Tee b4 but d4 is stuck up. d4 no longer knows how to talk to family. d4 can only proxy thru mom. Mom doesn't want to say anything to make people upset so nothing went thru. It's kinda sad.
Ok let's summarise.
For people who wants to get married:
For guys:
1) Never free load. Really. Buy your in-laws something to make them feel appreciate. It's all what's in the heart that matters.
2)Try to treat the friendly relatives if it's possible. Let your in-law feel proud.
3)Be friendly enough but always mind your gf/wife. Let her take priority (reasonable ones) as there are people all around.
4)Do not cheat on your wife. While she can cheat on you, the most important part of being a person is that you play your own Commendants. Not the bible's or Moses but your own. You run your own life on your own Virtue.
For girls:
1)If you are rich and pop's run a company, never try to let him lord over or allow him work for your dad unless you know $ is a secondary issue for him.
2)Your husband ask you to be lazy. Really. This can be an issue.
3)You want the voices to stop?Pay the dues. Do preventine actions. Voices are the 2nd warning before the wall starts coming down. Investigate and unearth the truth. Mend the fences before it's too late.
Actually this is a ranting post. Oh ya. Of course you know.
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